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Good table manners are different in different cultures and can vary greatly. However, here are some general things to avoid to avoid appearing rude, especially on vacation:
General things to avoid:
- Being late: Punctuality is valued in many cultures. Try to arrive on time for meals or invitations.
- Elbows on the table: In many cultures, resting your elbows on the table is considered impolite.
- Speaking with your mouth full: It is generally considered impolite to speak with your mouth full or to make noises while eating.
- Using cutlery incorrectly: Find out about the correct use of cutlery. In some cultures, it is customary to hold and use knives and forks in a certain way.
- Using the phone at the table: Using the phone during the meal is often considered rude.
- Being too loud: Loud talking or laughing can be perceived as disturbing.
Culture-specific things to avoid:
- Japan: Do not stick chopsticks vertically into a bowl of rice (this is reminiscent of a funeral ceremony). You should also not point chopsticks at others or poke them through the food.
- China: Do not blow your nose or clear your throat loudly at the table. You should also be careful not to finish all the food, as this can be seen as a sign that you have not had enough to eat.
- France: Bread should be placed on the table, not the plate. Do not cut cheese with the tip facing forward but parallel to the side.
- Italy: Do not order a cappuccino after a meal. This is considered inappropriate.
- India and Middle East: Never use your left hand to eat or hand over objects, as it is considered unclean.
- Thailand: Never place the fork directly in the mouth. It is used to push the food onto the spoon.
Tips for adaptation:
- Observe and adapt: Watch how locals behave and adapt.
- Questioning: If unsure, ask politely about proper table manners.
- Show respect: Respect local traditions and customs.
- By following these general and culture-specific rules, you can avoid many embarrassing situations and show respect for the host culture.
- Hector Pascua/picture: Bild von Sasin Tipchai auf Pixabay
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